timesquarecantshineasbrightasyou asked: So, this guy the guy I told you about a while ago, you probably don't remember. Well, he has a girlfriend, and my friend Ivy keeps telling me that he likes me, and that he says he loves me, but I don't think it's true, since he has a girlfriend. And my friend Quentin keeps asking me to ask out his best friend Jeremy out, because he ( Jeremy ) is gay, and Quentin in is denial. My friend Sara had moved a long time ago, and I really have no one to talk to about this without them saying, " I'm sorry. " or " I can not help you. " But when that guy started dating that girl, he didn't talk to me as much, and just talked to all my friends while I wasn't around. Noe every time I get near him, or he sits with me at lunch, my friends push me towards him, and I talk to him, but I know that nothing serious is going to happen. I just don't get guys. I'm really confused all the time.

I remember you! I don’t remember what you said exactly last time, but I do remember you.(:

I’m sorry about your friend moving :( maybe you should call her if you can? That’d probably make you feel a bit better.

About the guy with the girlfriend, if you really want to know, just ask him. Be like “So, I’ve heard from some people that you like me, and I was just wondering if its true?” If it is, then it’s up to you and him where it goes from there, but if he dumps his current girlfriend for you or something, who’s to say he won’t do the same to you?

If it turns out he doesn’t like you, then you can act like it was simply curiousity and brush it off. It might hurt to find out that he doesn’t but you’re strong, and theres lots of guys out there. You just have to be patient and wait for the right one <3

About the friend in denial, you just need to tell him to knock it off. He’ll figure out eventually that Jeremy is gay and there is no changing that. 

-Jessa

xoxo