Anonymous asked: Heey thuur!(x
Okay , so there is this guy. We are pretty cool friends.
We text a lot , but when it comes to face to face , we dont say a word besides , give each other a hug goodbye.
I used to like him , he used to like me. I feel like i have feelings for him , but something is saying that i dont. I asked him yesterday if he still "Liked" me . He said no , he asked the same. & in response i said no , even though i wanted to say that i did. But i dont know if i really do. We flirt a lot & he always sends signals that he's into me. I have no idea what to do. Should i just tell him how i really feel.. Or just pretend. Or what do you think i should doo?

My opinion is that you should tell him, because if you don’t its probably going to drive you crazy trying to pretend that you don’t. Besides you never know, maybe he was only saying no because he wasn’t sure if you felt the same. I also think that maybe something is telling you that you don’t because you’re afraid or because you’re unsure of his feelings and don’t want to be rejected or lose his friendship. But if he remained friends with you after finding out you liked him before, he will probably do the same if the feelings aren’t returned, so theres really nothing to fear there. 

Also, try to make an effort to talk more to him in person.

-Jessa

xoxo