Anonymous asked: My boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me just over three months ago because he didn't want a girlfriend. We were the perfect couple, we shared so much in common, we lost our virginities to eachother, we were eachothers first true loves, we didn't fight at all and then he just ended it out of the blue. I tried so hard to get him back, I didn't want to lose the best thing that ever happened to me. But I have now, and because I tried so hard then, he doesn't want anything to do me now. Exactly three months after he broke up with me, he got a new girlfriend. That killed me. I have to see them both every single day, which makes it so much harder. I guess you could say I'm over him, and I have been doing so well lately. But I've started to miss him again, and I don't want to :( is there anything I can do to be friends with him again, someone who wants absolutely nothing to do with me. I want to know when things are going to stop being so hard. I want to move on.

MY best advice would be to just try talking to him, make it clear that you would like to still be friends with him. If that doesn’t work then he’s probably not worth it. 

Find things to keep your mind off of him, it helps. (:

Things will be hard sometimes, but it will get better eventually, you just have to make an effort to be happy. 

Your first love will always have a special place in your heart, and some part of you will probably always love him, but you will find someone even better someday.  You just have to wait <3

-Jessa

xoxo